dear men. this is mostly a note to straight, cis men; but also includes trans men, queer men, and all who participate in masculinity – if you see yourself in […]
Month: May 2019
my mom though
it’s a couple of days after mother’s day, but right now is when i feel flooded with gratitude to my mom. she is kind, and fiercely loyal. she is infinitely […]
don’t call it a comeback: white throated rail!
“The Aldabra white-throated rail, a flightless bird that lives on its namesake atoll in the Indian Ocean, doesn’t look like anything special at first glance. But the small bird has […]
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Lizzo, Goddess
i remember when someone sent me the @fatyonce account on instagram, how fantastical and amusing and nourishing it was to me just to see that dreamed up intersection of confidence […]
surviving trolls
in the past few months, i have had a chance to talk with a number of people who have had scary/awful/overwhelming interactions with mass trolling online. kind of an informal […]
Building Accountable Communities (speech on strategies for ending and recovering from harm)
Harm is an external wound to your wholeness. More than a bump, an accident. Harm is what convinces us that in this abundant world, we only deserve to survive. Convinces […]