ah but what if this is the ideal body after all this body which once danced all night and still waited to see the sun rise this body which caught […]
Tag: self love
brief thoughts 2: starting small
this pandemic has really been a dance for me and my body. i thought i was going to be very healthy. i stocked my home with healthy things. then i […]
things i think i said at eso won books
the other night i got to do an artist talk at eso won books, in leimert park los angeles. super grateful to cultural shapeshifter lynnee denise from international locals who […]
Self Love as a Liberatory Practice for the Future
On Wednesday night I got to have a public conversation with new and old friends about self love. We spoke at Solespace, my favorite site store /community space in Oakland. […]
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10 sugar cleanse tips for success
so i am nearing the end of a 21 day sugar cleanse. it has been a completely transformational experience. i am at the end of day 18 now and really […]
wherein i write about sex. (5 tangible tools of a pleasure activist)
i started this blog the night beyonce’s album came out. i didn’t know her album was coming, and beyonce didn’t know she was unleashing a soundtrack to this moment of […]
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lessons from a transformative breakup: how to find new ways be in each other’s lives and not split the communities we love or the movements we support*
Try every single thing you can to make it work, and articulate the effort you are making to each other. Even things you aren’t sure will work – try EVERYthing. […]
why i stopped plucking/letting my brows grow
my sister autumn and i have been in a conversation for a while about letting our brows grow out. we touched on it again and last night and wrote down […]
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wild seed dinner, albuquerque nm
on june 3 we had an octavia butler dinner in albuquerque, an intimate event, just three of us (myself, host andrea quijada, and ob lover elena letourneau). this format made […]
say it out loud
lately i’ve felt like god-is-change is saying to me something like ‘you can have what you want, everything you want, but you have to say it out loud.’ today i […]